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This is not really meant to be a political post, but instead more of a plea. A plea for the children of the world. For those who don't know I am childless, yet that doesn't mean that I don't care for the plight of children. I see many people who talk about keeping children alive, but then nothing else. What were left with is a bunch of children alive and suffering.
     Some suffer because they have no one to take care of them. Others because the people who are supposed to take care of them don't. That's why I applaud all those out there that take care of your children and have the heart and will to take care of the children of others.
     By now everyone is like "Yeah we know", same old story but your not talking about me. Are you sure I'm not talking about you? Yes you made a child and 'maybe' you take care of them, but what are you doing with them. Are you being a parent? Are you spending quality time with them?
     That's why this blog is not political. This plea is not pro or anti abortion, a plea for adoption, or guide to parenting. I'm not raising kids and can't claim to know about it, but I do know that anyone and anything wants love. Everybody wants attention, most especially children. If you can't make the time to spend with your child then why even have them? Children don't ask to come into this world, you bring them here. They need food, shelter, protection, but that is not the end of it. They need to be taught right and wrong, and how to survive in this world. When your not there to do this then something else will. Something like the TV, the school, or whoever does spend time with them. Whatever raises them, its not you!
     Whatever you got going on in life, if your putting that before the child then once again, why have them? People out there are fighting ex spouses just so they can spend time with a child, and some are fighting international legal battles just to be in their child's life.
     So I know as always your going to say, you don't have kids so you don't know nothing. Well guess what if you aren't spending time with yours then you don't have any kids either you just have dependents, and you don't know nothing either. Cause if you did then you would know how much your missing out on, and how many childless people wish they had the opportunity that you are wasting.

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